How to give great oral sex to men

Robinson on Facebook Follow Eugene S. Aside from health it does enhance the sexual experience for many men. It's not as easy as getting YOU off, but as long as you follow some basic guidelines -- it's fun and super addictive. Going down on a woman is not scary; it's actually a wonderful experience. Sometimes you're into it, sometimes you're not, sometimes it's all about just focusing on trying not to gag if your partner has a penis, and sometimes you just give oral just so you can get some oral of your own in return. Not a way station between your clothes being off and his orgasm. Please enter your name here.

Often women see this act as a major turn-off or a chore, and engage in it only as a sense of obligation when they want their own oral sex and so will simply deal with it. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. Some women like it soft and gentle; other women like it hot and fast. The basics of performing fellatio is to use your hands and mouth to provide your man with the ultimate experience while being as sexy and sloppy as possible. This article was originally published on Mar 13, Get access to more free insight and advice. If you appreciated when I wrote in favor of you receiving oral sex , then you should respect when I tell you reasons why you should also be giving.

Languid is sometimes good. I mean, there's only so many ways [you can have sex. Many men love it, and many women need it. Like, even when he had just gotten out of the shower. Some of the things he may nag you about are many times just manifestations of his sexual frustration with you. If you don't know me, let me give you a brief introduction: My name is Zara Barrie, and I'm a full-blast, lady-loving lesbian.

Also, if you are only doing it out of a sense of duty , then your partner is going to feel the difference and you will be creating inauthenticity in the relationship. He should set some time for himself and you. Often women see this act as a major turn-off or a chore, and engage in it only as a sense of obligation when they want their own oral sex and so will simply deal with it. It's recently come to my attention that some of you may be a little intimidated about going down on a woman You can tell how excited a girl is by putting your finger down there. Lovers of oral sex can rejoice — the majority of people — almost three-quarters of both genders — say they enjoy performing oral sex.